Day 11- Something that pissed you off

Oh,yes I am waiting to post this entry such a long time. Finally.

I am quite a very straight forward person. When I said I am a very straight forward that's mean I AM VERY STRAIGHT FORWARD. I'll say things or stuffs quite straight to the dot but it is depends on the situation. I don't bluntly say nasty stuffs like that to people, I guess maturity says it all.

So what are that something pissed me off will be like a man asking you out for dinner and it turned out he asked you to pay for it. Sorry to say, it is not the right move to impress a lady. I know some male will say why everytime we guys have to pay for a girl. I got it but I think a man who asked a lady out and ask them ( lady ) to pay is such a jerk. 

Ask me, if a man ask me out without me asking them out I will expect for the guy to pay for me. Unless he is my old friend or a friend which I've known long ago then I wouldn't mind paying. It's understood. Mutual understanding.

I have a little chat with a friend of mine recently. We plan for a dinner and movie. And we were like, hey I buy the tickets and you buy the popcorns and drinks for us and I am totally no issue with that. Even if we need to share the bill for dinner. Because he is in manner. Mutual understanding.

I've asked someone just now, hey if you are asking a girl out for the first time will you ask her pay for her meals? Guess what he answered me, "if I am the one who ask her out, I will pay for her."

So my point here, I know it is not easy to earn the dollar but a boy/man who ask a girl/lady out and asked them to pay for the meals (for the first time meeting) is not appropriate.

Secondly, I never be that slim like a runaway model. I've work hard to be what I am now and I am still not happy with myself although now I am at size M. But for the records, I am proud with myself. I don't wanna be somebody else. I just want to be me. And just recently when I was out with some friends, a guy came to me and says I am fat. Holy crap, I was like what did you just said. I make him to repeat again. I smiled and I said okay. The next morning, I recieved a good morning from him saying,"hi sexy my naughty girl..." and the last thing I knew, he invited me for a movie.

You tell me, just 24 hours ago you told me I am fat and the very next day you described me as Sexy and Naughty? and you asked me out for a movie. What are you? Some kind of jokes?. Seriously, I do not give a damned for a man who have no clue how to respect female. 

So my point is, don't crack stupid jokes especially about fat and sex with females. Because that makes you look cheap and stupid.

And thirdly, do not take people for granted. A couple of week ago, a friend of mine asked me to pick up one of her friend for birthday party. I was working that day and the place is quite far from the place which I am staying. Her friend then texted me, "Hey Lexa, are you coming for the birthday? can you come and pick me up ar?". I told her yes I am coming but I will be late. She then said, it will be fine.She will wait for me as long as she have transport. Then I was like, okay cool. Deal. So like usually Lexa, I will text upon leaving the house. As I was on the way to her place she texted me, " you still far ah? how long u reach?". "how long u will reach?" "can u make it fast? I dun want to be late..". 

So feeling pushed, I drove and used the emergency lane and soon I realized she posted her status on Facebook as,

 " I never like to be late but someone doesn't know how to come early.."

I was like, you asked me to pick you up and I already told you I am going to be late and you can post something unmatured stuff like that on Facebook, what the heck.

My point is, I always believe if you are going to follow someone else car you have to follow their time and their plan. Don't just take people for granted or some kind of  being bossy.That is my public opinion.

So that's about it. Actually, there are still a lot more. But enough for this time. See yah!

Day 10- Songs you listen to currently

I am currently listening to Maroon 5 and The Script. If you know me long, you'll know that these two bands has been my favourite band since long ago. 

I love them so much and sometime I wish if I could have a boyfriend like the lead singer. They are both hot especially Adam. I love tattoo guy. They are just bloody hot and rawk. Oh,damned.

So yes, this is it :)

Day 09- Something you’re proud of in the past few days

Apart from losing weight and getting new real friends, I'd like to say I am getting my life back to the track.

Never wish for things to be easier, wish for yourself getting better.

I was in my doom day a couple of months ago.
I was blurred. I was lost.

Sleeping on my bed the whole day, made myself getting high and headache. High because I have no idea what to do. Headache because sleep too much.



So finally I realized,the past is over now.


Life is about moving on and make the very best of yourself.

I am feeling great now.  And yes, I wouldn't trade my life now for anything not worth it.

The past really taught me how to be completely careful and wiser I must say.

Life is too precious and I am not going to lose any bits of anything,everything. 

So, moving on is something which I am really proud for these couple of months.

Can you see my eyes shining?? and less pimples,oh yeah!!

P/S Do not say Good Bye yet, as my new journey just begin.

Day 08- Short term goals for this month and why

Although nobody really read this but I am still gonna write and write and write. 
I can't stand by knowing that I couldn't even finish this challenge again this year!

Alright, my short term goals will be :

1. Stick to my diet plan. No more late night sandwic. Because why?, I just gained another kg. Look, I was XXL and now I am M size. You got what I mean?

No More food after 7PM

2. Spend lesser. No more shopping for new books and dress. I have enough. Because why?. I just finished my whole paycheck this month for a books and dresses. I am a shopping addict!

For the record, I finished my entire paycheck for shopping this month.

3. Come to office early no more half an hour late. Because why?... I am late. Usually I reach half or an hour late. I don't want to get fired for a lame reason though.

4. Sleep early.Because why?,eye bag makes me look funny.

So, that's it. Have a good weekend all.

No harm to have more friends than enemy :)

Day 07- A picture of someone/something that has the biggest impact on you

I don't know. This is kind of burden to think of. I think my own journey itself has been the biggest impact to myself.
So shall I still have to find a picture of something that has the biggest impact to myself??.

Okay, FRIENDS. If you know me long you know how much I value friendship.
So basically, friends keep me moving on to the better way.

They are my biggest impact.

So here it is,my fav ones.

To be honest, I am not so sure how to finish this 30-days blog challenge. I think I will never going to finish it.
But still, I am working hard on this. So here is my favourite book ever.

The Truth About Melody Browne by Lisa Jewell

The stories are awesome. Imagine when you can't remember anything about your childhood. And the person who you thought your parents isn't the real ones. You have no photo of your childhood and you can't even recall if you have any good friends back then.

When everything so blurred and the only person who can answer your every question has long gone, times will be difficult and complicated.

Well everybody have their own past. It's either the beautiful ones or the bad beautiful memories. You gotta find the truth by yourself.

So this is it,my favourite book ever.

More on my Facebook

Hey, how is everyone??
Christmas Eve was great. I was out with few bloggers. And the Christmas day itself I was out with newly found good friend Cindy. So called lost in Subang but I managed to reach there although that was quite late. 

Driving like a 21 years old girl, I followed them to Empire Walk. Hunting for a Christmas present was great and I was thinking to do that in 2013. I have my important new list already. Playing with phone, a big no-no. Listen all, friendship means a lot so do not text when you are out with your buddies. Try not to do that because it's annoying.

And back home. Lost  again when I was on the way to Norry's place.
I then ended up having dinner with my old old friend.

He looks great and I was happy to be able to chat with him again like the old days. Who doesn't huh??
It was so fun to laugh at about how stupid we were when we both was so young and foolish. Oh, that was just so nice. It was so about us. But worry not, he is not my boyfriend. He is a good friend of mine.

Did I told you about my first Comic Fiesta?
Yes, I went to KLCC and it was like walking in Japan. It was my first experience. You can see load of cartoon characters there. Although I am not a big fan of anime I wish I stumble into one of the cartoon character that I known. A sailormoon at least?.

I wish to have my own Cosplay next year. Bulma Bulma. How does it sound??